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Decoupling Your ‘But’: What to say when a church member comes out to you

by Bill White | Apr 27, 2026 | Ministry Resources, Student Ministry

When a church member comes out to you as a church leader, your response matters more than you think. Learn 4 crucial things to say and 3 simple questions that help create safety, trust, and care in that moment.

Dear Christian Parents of LGBTQ Kids: We’re Sorry

by Bill White | Feb 17, 2026 | Diversity, Equity & Inclusion, Leadership & Soul Care, Student Ministry

When your child comes out, the church should be your support system — not your source of pain. This post is for Christian parents of LGBTQ kids who need to hear what the church should have said all along.

You Can’t Wait for Your Senior Pastor: Students are Asking LGBTQ Questions Now

by Bill White | Sep 10, 2025 | Ministry Resources, Student Ministry

Students are asking LGBTQ questions now. Here’s how youth pastors can lead with clarity and care—even if their church isn’t ready.

3 Reasons Why Youth Pastors Struggle with LGBTQ Questions

by Bill White | Jan 21, 2025 | Ministry Resources, Student Ministry

Often, youth ministry is the first place where LGBTQ issues surface in the church. Youth workers often feel trapped because their students DEFINITELY want to talk about LGBTQ inclusion and yet so many times church leadership does NOT want to have those conversations.

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